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4. NP'S -- THE INTUITIVE PERCEIVING-MODE
TYPES
INTP -- Introverted Thinking
Aided By Intuition
Main Characteristics
INTPs exhibit the greatest precision in
thought and language of all the types; they tend to see distinctions
and inconsistencies in thought and language instantaneously.
The one word which captures the unique style of INTPs is architect
- the architect of ideas and systems as well as the architect
of edifices. This type is found in only 1 percent of the population
and therefore is not encountered as frequently as some of the
other types.
INTPs detect contradictions in statements
no matter how distant in space or time the contradictory statements
were produced. The intellectual scanning of INTPs has a principled
quality; that is, INTPs search for whatever is relevant and pertinent
to the issue at hand. Consequently, INTPs can concentrate better
than any other type.
Authority derived from office, position,
or wide acceptance does not impress INTPs. Only statements that
are logical and coherent carry weight. External authority per
se is irrelevant. INTPs abhor redundancy and incoherence. Possessing
a desire to understand the universe, an INTP is constantly looking
for natural law. Curiosity concerning these keys to the universe
is a driving force in this type.
INTPs prize intelligence in themselves
and in others, but can become intellectual dilettantes as a result
of their need too amass ideas, principles, or understanding of
behavior. And once they know something, it is remembered. INTPs
can become obsessed with analysis. Once caught up in a thought
process, that thought process seems to have a will of its own
for INTPs, and they persevere until the issue is comprehended
in all its complexity. They can be intellectual snobs and may
show impatience at times with others less endowed intellectually.
This quality, INTPs find, generates hostility and defensive behavior
on the part of others, who may describe an INTP as arrogant.
For INTPs, the world exists primarily to
be understood. Reality is trivial, a mere arena for proving ideas.
It is essential that the universe is understood and that whatever
is stated about the universe is stated correctly, with coherence
and without redundancy. This is the INTPs final purpose. It matters
not whether others understand or accept his or her truths.
Career
The INTP is the logician, the mathematician,
the philosopher, the scientist; any pursuit requiring architecture
of ideas intrigues this type. INTP's should not, however, be
asked to work out the implementation or application of their
models to the real world.
The INTP is the architect of a system and
leaves it to others to be the builder and the applicator. Very
often therefore, the INTP's work is not credited to him or her.
The builder and the applier gains fame and fortune, while the
INTP's name remains obscure. Appreciation of an INTP's theoretical
work frequently comes posthumously - or the work may never be
removed from library shelves at all and thus lost.
INTP's tend not to be writers or to go
into sales work. They are, however, often excellent teachers,
particularly for advanced students, although INTP's do not always
enjoy much popularity, for they can be hard taskmasters. They
are not good at clerical tasks and are impatient with routine
details. They prefer to work quietly, without interruption, and
often alone. If an organization is to use the talents of an INTP
appropriately, the INTP must be given an efficient support staff
who can capture ideas as they emerge and before the INTP loses
interest and turns to another idea.
Our "architect" is not merely
a designer of buildings. There is the architect of ideas (the
philosopher), the architect of number systems (the mathematician),
the architect of computer languages (the programmer), and on
and on. In short, abstract design is the forte of the architect
and coherence is the primary issue.
Home
INTP's take their mating relationship seriously
and usually are faithful and devoted - albeit preoccupied at
times. They are not likely to welcome constant social activity
or disorganization in the home. In all probability, the mate
of an INTP will initiate and manage the social life. If left
to his or her own devices the INTP mate will retreat into the
world of books and emerge only when physical needs become imperative.
INTP's are, however, willing, compliant, and easy to live with,
although somewhat forgetful of appointments, anniversaries, and
rituals of daily living unless reminded. They may have difficulty
expressing their emotions verbally, and the mate of an INTP may
believe that he/she is somewhat taken for granted. As a parent,
the INTP is devoted; they enjoy children, and are serious about
their upbringing. The home of an INTP parent is usually calm,
low-key in discipline, but well run and ordered.
INTP's deal with the environment primarily
through intuition, and their strongest quality, the thinking
function, remains relatively hidden except in close associations.
Therefore, INTP's are often misunderstood, seen as difficult
to know, and seldom perceived at their true level of competency.
They are inclined to be shy except when with close friends, and
their reserve is difficult to penetrate. They are very adaptable
until one of their principles is violated. Then INTP's are not
adaptable at all! They may have difficulty in being understood
by others because they tend to think in a complicated fashion
and want to be precise, never redundant in their communications.
Because their feeling qualities may be underdeveloped, they may
be insensitive to the wants and wishes of others, often unaware
of the existence of these wants and wishes.
Mid-life
At mid-life the INTP might do well to work
on increasing awareness of emotional responses, responding to
the value preferences of others, and verbalizing to others the
INTP's awareness of these values. At mid-life one of the tasks
of the INTP is to develop an ability to play for play's sake;
not to learn something or to somehow improve a skill. Working
on the sensual side of his or her nature may provide a source
of new pleasure and excitement.
Mates
Why would this abstractionist find the
ESFJ "seller" attractive? Think broadly of selling.
This amounts to persuading another to receive something of value
to the receiver. The seller is essentially caring for the receiver
(quite apart from the fact that the receiver pays). This is the
essential attitude of the ESFJ seller, and this attitude is perceptible
to the receiver (buyer); he feels this nourishing approach. That
is what is attractive to the INTP architect-philosopher - the
nourishment which anchors him to the real world.
What attracts the ESFJ "seller"?
Here is a person who, like a balloon filled with hydrogen, is
likely to escape the earth (in his abstract attitude). He needs
to have a string attached so that he can be hauled down to earth
now and then. In a sense, he needs to be "sold on reality,"
so indifferent is he to it.
The INTP also has a second likely target
to attract him: the ENFJ "pedagogue." What is a pedagogue?
A catalyst of the growth process, someone who has that uncanny
ability to "bring out" the other, to activate the differentiation
or "unfolding" process in the learner. All NFs seem
to have this capability in some degree and the accompanying desire
to exercise it, but the ENFJ seems to have it in abundance. This
relationship - the ENFJ-INTP - can be "deep and meaningful"
for the former and anchoring in a charismatic way for the latter.
4. NP'S -- THE INTUITIVE
PERCEIVING-MODE TYPES
INFP -- Introverted Feeling
Aided By Intuition
Main Characteristics
INFPs present a calm, pleasant face to
the world and are seen as reticent and even shy. Although they
demonstrate a cool reserve toward others, inside they are anything
but distant. They have a capacity for caring which is not always
found in other types.
They care deeply -- indeed, passionately
-- about a few special persons or a cause. One word that captures
this type is idealistic. At times, this characteristic leaves
them feeling isolated, especially since INFPs are found in only
1 percent of the general population. INFPs have a profound sense
of honor derived from internal values. The INFP is the Prince
or Princess of mythology, the King's Champion, Defender of the
Faith, and guardian of the castle. Sir Galahad and Joan of Arc
are male and female prototypes of an INFP. To understand INFPs
their cause must be understood, for they are willing to make
unusual sacrifices for someone or something believed in.
INFPs seek unity in their lives, unity
of body and mind, emotions and intellect. They often have a subtle
tragic motif running through their lives, but others seldom detect
this inner minor key. The deep commitment of INFPs to the positive
and the good causes them to be alert to the negative and the
evil, which can take the form of a fascination with the profane.
Thus INFPs may live a paradox, drawn toward purity and unity
but looking over the shoulder toward the sullied and desecrated.
When INFPs believe that they have yielded to an impure temptation,
they may be given to acts of self-sacrifice in atonement. The
atonement, however, is within the INFP, who does not feel compelled
to make public the issue.
INFPs prefer the valuing process over the
purely logical. They respond to the beautiful versus the ugly,
the good versus the bad, and the moral versus the immoral. Impressions
are gained in a fluid, global, diffused way. Metaphors and similes
come naturally but may be strained. INFPs have a gift for interpreting
symbols, as well as creating them, and thus often write in lyric
fashion. They may demonstrate a tendency to take deliberate liberties
with logic. Unlike the NT, they see logic as something optional.
INFPs also may, at times, assume an unwarranted familiarity with
a domain, because their global, impressionistic way of dealing
with reality may have failed to register a sufficient number
of details for mastery. INFPs may have difficulty thinking in
terms of a conditional framework; they see things as either real
or fancied, and are impatient with the hypothetical.
Career
At work, INFPs are adaptable, welcome new
ideas and new information, are well aware of people and their
feelings, and relate well to most, albeit with some psychological
distance. INFPs dislike telephone interruptions and work well
alone, as well as with others. They are patient with complicated
situations, but impatient with routine details. They can make
errors of fact, but seldom of values. Their career choices may
be toward the ministry, missionary work, college teaching, psychiatry,
architecture, psychology - and away from business. They seem
willing and usually are able to apply themselves scholastically
to gain the necessary training for professional work, often doing
better in college than in high school. They have a natural interest
in scholarly activities and demonstrate, as do the other NF's,
a remarkable facility for languages. Often they hear a calling
to go forth into the world to help others; they seem willing
to make the necessary personal sacrifices involved in responding
to that call, even if it means asking others to do likewise.
INFPs can make outstanding novelists and character actors, for
they are able to efface their own personalities in their portrayal
of a character in a way other types cannot.
Home
At mates, INFPs have a deep commitment
to their pledges. They like to live in harmony and may go to
great lengths to avoid constant conflict. They are sensitive
to the feelings of others and enjoy pleasing those they care
for. They may find it difficult to reconcile a romantic, idealized
concept of conjugal life with the realities of everyday living
with another person. At times, in fact, INFPs may seem fearful
of exuberant attainment, afraid that current advances may have
to be paid for with later sacrifices. The devil is sure to get
his due if the INFP experiences too freely of success, or beauty,
or health, or wealth, or knowledge. And thus, INFPs guard against
giving way to relaxing in the happiness of mating. They may have
difficulty in expressing affection directly, but communicate
interest and affection indirectly.
For INFPs, their home is their castle.
As parents, they are fierce in protection of home and family
and are devoted to the welfare of family members. They have a
strong capacity for devotion, sympathy, and adaptability in their
relationships, and thus are easy to live with. They are loyal
to their family and, although they may dream of greener pastures,
if they stray into those pastures they soon locate the nettles.
The almost preconscious conviction that pleasure must be paid
for with pain can cause a sense of uneasiness in the family system
of an INFP, who may transmit an air of being ever-vigilant against
invasion. In the routine rituals of daily living, INFPs tend
to be compliant and may even prefer having decisions made on
their behalf, until their value system is violated! Then INFPs
dig in their heels and will not budge from ideals. Life with
an INFP will go gently along for long periods, until an ideal
is struck and violated. Then an INFP will resist and insist.
Mid-life
At mid-life INFPs may want to increase
mastery of intellectual interests, perhaps taking advanced degrees
in a chosen profession. They also may want to explore the sensual
side of their natures, expanding their aesthetic appreciation
to include physical sensory appreciation. Extending social activities
and contacts may offer new horizons for INFPs, but they will
have to guard against overextension psychologically, for before,
during, and after mid-life the vulnerability and sensitivity
of the INFP will continue, and he or she can easily become emotionally
drained.
Mates
The INFP question probably has more problems
in mating than any other type. Let us be mindful of the relative
infrequency: about 1.25 percent, say two and a half million people
in the USA. Their problem lies in their primary outlook on life.
"Life," says the INFP, "is
a very serious matter." Now when a person makes his life
a kind of crusade or a series of crusades, then there's bound
to be some taxing of the spouse. If the INFP takes the other
tack, the "monastic" (and the same person can tack
back and forth - now a crusader, now a monastic), the spouse
will find himself again taxed, trying to draw the monastic out
of his dark meditative cave.
The opposites of our crusading monastic
seem well equipped for this alternating-phase taxation: ENTJ
and ESTJ. Both are anchored in the real world with a vengeance.
The ENTJ marshaling his or her forces toward distant objectives,
the ESTJ administrating in a solid, dependable, and traditional
way whatever is his or hers to administer. Both provide anchorage
to a person who might otherwise get lost in meditation or in
crusade. Selection of a mate of irrelevant form (e.g., an ISTP
artisan or an ESTP promoter) would not be the wisest of tactics
in so serious a business as life.
4. NP'S -- THE INTUITIVE
PERCEIVING-MODE TYPES
ENTP -- Extraverted Intuition
Aided By Thinking
Main Characteristics
ENTP's wish to exercise their ingenuity
in the world of people and things. Found in about five out of
every hundred people, ENTP's extravert intuition; thus they deal
imaginatively with social relationships as well as physical and
mechanical relations. They are very alert to what is apt to occur
next, and always sensitive to possibilities.
ENTP's are good at analysis, especially
functional analysis, and have both a tolerance for and enjoyment
of the complex. Usually enthusiastic, ENTP's are apt to express
interest in everything, and thus are a source of inspiration
to others, who find themselves caught up by the ENTP's enthusiasm.
This type is delighted over many things and so is easy to please,
often showing the effervescence of their NF counterpart, the
ENFP. The ENTP is the most reluctant of all the types to do things
in a particular manner just because that is the way things always
have been done.
They characteristically have an eye out
for a better way, always on the lookout for new projects, new
activities, new procedures.
ENTP's are confident in the value of their
pursuits and display a charming capacity to ignore the standard,
the traditional, and the authoritative. As a result of this open
attitude, they often bring a fresh, new approach to their work
and their lives. The
ENTP is a keen judge of the pragmatics
of both the social and the mechanical, and may become expert
at directing relationships between means and ends.
Where the introverted NTP sees design as
an end in itself, the extraverted NTP sees design as a means;
the end is the invention that works, the prototype that is replicable.
Ideas are valuable when and only when they make possible actions
and objects. "It can't be done" is a challenge to an
ENTP and elicits a reaction of "I can do it." They
are not, however, the movers of mountains as are the INTJ's.
Rather, the faith of the ENTP's is in their ability to improvise
something, and they display an unusual talent for rising to the
expediency of a situation. Superficially, ENTP's resemble ESTP's
in their "daring to do." But the focus of the ENTP
is on the competency and the sense of power this gives, rather
than on the feeling of freedom of action experienced by the ESTP.
ENTP's can be fascinating conversationalists,
able as they are to follow the complex verbalizations of others.
They may deliberately employ debate tactics to the disadvantage
of their opponents, even when the "opponents" are close
associates and valued friends. ENTP's are the most able of all
types to maintain a one-up position with others. They value adaptability
and innovation and thus respond quickly and adeptly to another's
shifting position. They may even be several jumps ahead. The
ENTP, talkative and motivating, is often the life of an enterprise.
The ENTP can be an entrepreneur and cleverly makes do with whatever
or whoever is at hand, counting on ingenuity to solve problems
as they arise, rather than carefully generating a detailed blueprint
in advance. A rough draft is all that an ENTP needs to feel confident
and ready to proceed into action, counting on the ability to
improvise as a situation develops. Because of this tendency to
depend on ingenuity and improvising, they may neglect very necessary
preparation at times. After repeated failures in situations where
improvising has met with defeat, the ENTP may develop ways of
avoiding such situations as a substitute to thorough preparation.
Career
ENTP's can succeed in a variety of occupations,
as long as the job does not involve too much humdrum routine.
At this point, they become restless. If a project in which they
are engaged is no longer challenging, they tend to lose interest
in that project and fail to follow through - often to the discomfort
of colleagues.
Seldom are ENTP's conformists. ENTP's enjoy
outwitting the system and use rules and regulations within the
system to win the game - whatever it may be. They understand
well the politics of institutions and deal with these realities
very well, always aiming to understand the people within the
system rather than to judge them. ENTP's are good at innovative
projects and can administer them well if dull routine is not
involved. They usually are outstanding teachers, continuously
devising new participative ways to make learning exciting for
the students. As an employee, an ENTP may work against the system
just for the joy of being one-up. For ENTP's, to be taken-in,
to be manipulated by another, is humiliating; this offends their
joy in being masters of the art of one-upmanship. ENTP's are
the natural engineers of human relationships and human systems.
Their good humor and optimistic outlook tend to be contagious,
and people seek out their company.
Home
As mates, ENTP's tend to create a lively
living environment. They are gregarious, laugh easily and often,
and are typically in good humor. Orderliness in the routines
of daily living is not apt to inspire them; they usually solve
this problem by mobilizing those around them. Tom Sawyer illustrated
this talent when he solved the problem of getting Aunt Polly's
fence whitewashed. Life with ENTP's is likely to be a daring
adventure; they can lead families to physical and economic dangers.
ENTP's improvise to remain unaware that they do not have the
necessary knowledge of the situation to ward off such dangers.
If the mate of an ENTP is not competitive,
he or she is likely to find the one-up/one-down transactions
somewhat wearing. If the mate is competitive, the result might
be conflict. Although usually good providers of economic necessities,
ENTP's at times engage in brinkmanship with their careers, placing
them in jeopardy and behaving as if unaware of the consequences;
they may thus offer unnecessary challenges to those who have
power over their professional success. When challenges elicit
negative responses from superiors, ENTP's are apt to react with
delight at having an opportunity to improvise a solution to the
crisis and, more often than not, they succeed in doing so.
ENTP's are likely to have all sorts of
hobbies and to be experts in unexpected areas, but they are not
apt to share these hobbies with their mates or children in the
sense of teaching them. In fact, ENTP's may be very inconsistent
in the attention given to offspring. Usually, it is feast or
famine. ENTP's have a lively circle of friends and are interested
in their ideas and activities. They are usually easygoing, seldom
critical or nagging. At their worst, they can show undependable,
fickle characteristics and may be rather easily discouraged.
Mid-life
At mid-life ENTP's can allow their tendency
to experiment recklessly to get out of hand and may destroy or
discard the work of half a lifetime, both in personal relationships
and in careers. Energy spent in sorting out priorities and values
may be a good investment at this time. Developing an increased
awareness of emotional reactions and expanding the intensity
and range of these through self-development work may be something
ENTP's might want to consider at mid-life. An increased repertoire
of introverted-type activities; for example, gardening, painting,
or reading may be a source of pleasure to ENTP's.
Mates
The inventive ENTP finds in the ISFJ a
neat complement for his enterprise, for in the ISFJ he finds
the supreme conservator. The conservator, broadly conceived,
is morally bound to ensure the material and legal welfare of
his or her charge. The inventor, also broadly conceived, is bent
on replacing whatever tools, operation, or enterprise now exists
with a better one. Out to exercise his ingenuity in bettering
things, the ENTP is of necessity iconoclastic and tends to be
so seen. So he can get into a bit of trouble with the elders,
who usually are not all that pleased to see their tried-and-true
tools, operations, and enterprises blithely set aside for the
ENTP's better mousetrap. The ISFJ, mated to this inventive rascal,
takes on the task of squaring things with the establishment.
The ENTP also may be attracted to his opposite
on the N side: he approaches the INFJ. But the INFJ is humorously
and preposterously different from the seemingly similar ISFJ.
In the INFJ lies the soul of the "author" - the meaning-giver,
the mystic, the oracle. Perhaps the INFJ is a conservator of
the soul, a sort of messiah. At any rate, there is something
about the "author" (very broadly conceived) which the
ENTP covets. Prometheus had to pay dearly for giving fire to
man. The Promethian ENTP may figure that, though his INFJ mate
may not rescue his body from the vultures, at least the INFJ
might rescue his soul from Hell.
4. NP'S -- THE INTUITIVE
PERCEIVING-MODE TYPES
ENFP -- Extraverted Intuition
Aided By Feeling
Main Characteristics
For ENFPs nothing occurs which does not
have some significance, and they have an uncanny sense of the
motivations of others. This gives them a talent for seeing life
as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good
and evil. This type is found in only about 5 percent of the general
population, but they have great influence because of their extraordinary
impact on others. ENFPs strive toward the authentic, even when
acting spontaneously, and this is usually communicated non verbally
to others, who find this characteristic attractive. ENFPs, however,
find their own efforts of authenticity and spontaneity always
lacking, and tend to heap coals of fire on themselves, always
berating themselves for being so conscious of self.
ENFPs consider intense emotional experiences
vital; when they have these, however, they are made uneasy by
a sense of being there but with a part of themselves split off.
They strive for congruency, but always see themselves in some
danger of losing touch with their real feelings, which ENFPs
possess in a wide range and variety.
ENFPs exercise a continuous scanning of
the external environment, and nothing out of the ordinary is
likely to escape their attention. They are keen and penetrating
observers and are capable of intense concentration on another
individual while aware of what is going on about them. Their
attention is never passive or casual, never wandering, but always
directed. At times, ENFPs find themselves interpreting events
in terms of another's "hidden motive," giving special
meaning to words or actions. This interpretation tends to be
negative and, more often than not, inaccurately negative. In
the process, an ENFP may find that he or she has introduced an
unnecessary, toxic element into the relationship. While ENFPs
are brilliantly perceptive, they can make serious
mistakes in judgment, which works to their discomfort. These
mistakes derive from their tendency to focus on data which confirm
their own biases. They may be absolutely correct in their perceptions
but wrong in their conclusions.
Because they tend to be hypersensitive
and hyper alert, they may suffer from muscle tension. They live
in readiness for emergencies; because they have this facility,
they assume this is true for others. They can become bored rather
quickly with both situations and people, and resist repeating
experiences. They enjoy the process of creating something - an
idea or a project - but are not as interested in the follow-through.
They are typically enthusiastic, and this is contagious. People
get caught up and entranced by an ENFP. Yet this type is marked
with a fierce independence, repudiating any kind of subordination,
either in themselves or in others in relation to them. They do
tend to attribute more power to authority figures than is there
and give over to these figures an ability to "see through"
them - which also is not apt to be there. While ENFPs resist
the notion of others becoming dependent or having power over
them, their charisma draws followers who wish to be shown the
way. ENFPs constantly find themselves surrounded by others who
look toward the ENFP for wisdom, inspiration, courage, leadership,
and so on - an expectancy which, at times, weighs rather heavily
on an ENFP.
ENFPs are characteristically optimistic
and are surprised when people or events do not turn out as anticipated.
Often their confidence in the innate goodness of fate and human
nature is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Career
ENFPs have a remarkable latitude in career
choices and succeed in many fields. As workers, they are warmly
enthusiastic, high-spirited, ingenious, imaginative, and can
do almost anything that interests them. They can solve most problems,
particularly those dealing with people. They are charming and
at ease with colleagues; others enjoy their presence. ENFPs are
outstanding in getting people together, and are good at initiating
meetings and conferences, although not as talented at providing
for the operational details of these events. They enjoy inventing
new ways of doing things, and their projects tend to become a
cause, quickly becoming personalized. They are imaginative themselves,
but can have difficulty picking up on ideas and projects initiated
by others. They must make these ideas and projects their own
if ENFPs are to lend their energy and interest. Once people or
projects become routine, ENFPs are likely to lose interest; what
might be is always more fascinating than what is. ENFPs make
extensive use of their intuitive powers. They usually have a
wide range of personal and telephone contacts, expending energy
in maintaining both career and personal relationships.
ENFPs make excellent salespeople, advertising
people, politicians, screen or play writers, and in general are
attracted to the interpretative arts, particularly character
acting. People to people work is essential for ENFPs, who need
the feedback of interaction with others. ENFPs may find it difficult
to work within the constraints of an institution, especially
in following rules, regulations, and standard operating procedures.
More frequently, institutional procedures and policies are targets
to be challenged and bent by the will of an ENFP. Colleagues
and superiors sometimes find themselves in the position of having
to accommodate and salvage. At times, ENFPs demonstrate impatience
with others; they may get into difficulty in an organization
by siding with its detractors, who find in an ENFP a sympathetic
ear and a natural rescuer. In occupational choice, ENFPs quickly
become restless if the choice involves painstaking detail and
follow-through over a period of time. Variety in day-to-day operations
and interactions best suits the talents of ENFPs, who need quite
a bit of latitude in which to exercise their adaptive ingenuity.
Home
As mates, ENFPs tend to be charming, gentle,
sympathetic, and nonconformist. They are not likely to be interested
in the less inspired routines of daily maintenance and ever will
be seeking new outlets for their inspirations. As parents, ENFPs
are devoted although somewhat unpredictable in handling their
children, shifting from a role of friend-in-need-rescuer to stern
authority figure. They may not always be willing to enforce their
impulsive pronouncements, but leave it to their mates to follow
through. A mate of an ENFP can expect charming surprises: extravagant
generosity punctuated by periods of frugality. Independent actions
regarding money on the part of an ENFP's mate are not ordinarily
welcomed, and the mate may find him or herself in an embarrassing
situation of having to return purchases. ENFPs generally are
the ones in charge of the home, and a conflict free home is desired,
almost demanded. When he or she is in charge of economic resources,
the ENFP's home may contain extravagant luxuries while necessities
may be missing. They are not always interested in saving for
the future and may be casual in giving consideration to such
things as life insurance, savings accounts, and even a ready
cash supply for mate and children.
ENFPs are characteristic in their pursuit
of the novel, their strong sense of the possible, and outstanding
intuitive powers. At the same time, they have warmth and fun
with people and generally are unusually skilled in handling people.
Their extraverted role tends to be well developed, as is their
capacity for the novel and the dramatic.
Mid-life
At mid-life ENFP may need to give particular
attention to their physical health, concentrating perhaps on
developing resources to release muscular tensions. Body awareness
and relaxation exercises may deserve investment of energies;
work with various art media such as oils, clay, and building
materials may be pleasurable. They need also to discipline themselves
against beginning too many projects and making commitments to
too many people. They should more fully enjoy relationships and
opportunities that already exist, even at the expense of neglecting
new ones. ENFPs certainly need to relax, to decrease the number
of hours invested in work, and turn to recreational activities
- travel, visual entertainment, and physically relaxing activities.
Mates
Here is the herald, the spirited bearer
of tiding. But underneath this effervescent enthusiasm is a person
fiercely dedicated to "meaning" in life and reminiscent
of the INFP crusader. Only the ENFP neither crusades nor meditates,
not for long anyway. The ENFP is into everything, frisky, not
unlike a puppy, sniffing around to see what's new. ENFP has to
be in on everything, can't bear to be left out of anything. That's
why they make such splendid reporters, newscasters, and journalists.
Mercury. Now who would enjoy this frisky, bubbly - yet serious
- person? The Rock of Gibraltar, of course - ISTJ, the "trustee."
ISTJ, who revels in "keeping the books in order," "balancing
the budget," "securing and ensuring," "stabilizing
and steadying," "honoring contracts," "keeping
the ship on a steady course" and "shipshape,"
delights also in providing anchorage and safe harbor for the
heraldic ENFP.
Who else is attractive and attracted to
our curious journalist? Strangely, the abstract scientist: INTJ.
Lost in his abstract world of hypotheses, he finds anchorage
in the person who knows what's going on in the real world! So
ENFP can be an anchor or have an anchor, and who can tell which
will be chosen.
Copyright
2000, Gesher, Robert I. Winer, M.D.
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